The week before the wedding is largely a blur to me. I'm pretty sure I was out of my mind for most of it (as I'm sure our helpers can affirm). Nonetheless, I am going to try to recap it as best I can, counting down to that most coveted of series: the actual recaps!
Sunday: I truly do not remember what happened the Sunday before the wedding. I'm pretty sure I was at work most of the day, but I'm also pretty sure something important happened and that I had the afternoon off. But try as I might, I cannot get this day clear in my head. This may be because the one thing I do remember about Sunday is that it was the first day of the Worst Headache I Have Ever Had in My Life. On Sunday, it was but a little thing, a headache I assumed was caused by stress and lack of sleep that would go away by Monday. It didn't. And as the week progressed, I became increasingly concerned that the pounding would ruin the wedding day. It was strange because headaches are one of the few common ailments I've never had a problem with, but by the end of the week, I was downing migraine medicine like candy. But at this point, it was just a nuisance, another thing to deal with the week before the wedding.
Monday: My recollection of Monday is slightly clearer. I worked in the morning then headed over to Staples to have our escort/place cards printed, was momentarily seized with fear that they would not be done in time, and left with a later pick-up date than I was comfortable with and a gnawing terror that something would go horribly wrong as it in fact did.
But it was Monday night that our savior arrived. We owe groomslady Becca more than anyone else who helped us with the wedding, except possibly our officiant, Nicole. Becca was there for us the whole week before the wedding, having headed down to San Jose early to spend some time with her family and boyfriend (when in fact we stole her for the vast majority of her visit), and I truly do not think we would have gotten through it all without her.
As I feverishly wrote out thank you notes for the people who were planning to or already had helped us greatly with the wedding preparations, Becca made reserved signs for our ceremony, directions and maps from the ceremony to the reception, and helped us with a few other signs that were needed at the reception. You think signs are a small thing until you have no time to make them, and I am so glad that someone else could save me from this simple task.
Becca also helped us start (yes, start) on our music playlist and contributed a fair amount of material to it. I think listening to her music was the first time I relaxed since coming back from Catalina. Even though it only lasted about 15 minutes, I was grateful to be working on a wedding task that was actually fun for the first time in too long. Then, it was off to bed in the hopes of ridding myself of Day Two of the Worst Headache I Have Ever Had in My Life.
Tuesday: By Tuesday morning, my headache had gotten so bad that I couldn't lower my head without having to sit down for a minute. And when your job is teaching gymnastics, this can be quite limiting. I stopped demonstrating for the kids, stopped chasing them around, pretty much stopped moving unless I had to. Thankfully, my last day at work ending at 1pm, and I was free to devote all of my time to the wedding (and to keeping my head as still as possible). Most of what I remember about Tuesday is going through every type of painkiller in the house, trying to find something that would quiet the pounding in my head and finally giving up and making a doctor's appointment for the next day.
I think I confirmed all of our vendors and appointments this day too. There was a momentary scare when our make-up people messed up our appointment time, but we got it sorted out (or so I thought). I debated whether or not to steam my dress (because I soooo did not trust Elegant Lace Bridal by this point), decided it wasn't necessary, and got the flower girl's dress steamed instead. And most importantly, I printed out our ceremony and stuck it into a book for the officiant, readers, and us to use during the wedding.
Becca came back over and continued to save our asses by performing whatever small tasks were needed.
It was on Wednesday that things truly began to get crazy.
Do you remember the week before your wedding, or is it blurry to you too? What tasks did you leave to the last minute or forget about?